Manifesting Love - A Quick Guide

Manifesting love is high on the list of desires for many people. We all want to be loved and we all want to be loved by the right person. Of course, manifesting love is a huge subject, and we are merely scraping the surface with this Quick Guide To Manifesting Love.

So here are some useful tips for Manifesting Love in Your Life...

1. Form a clear intention:

Spend some time thinking about the type of partner you want to attract. Make a list of qualities and characteristics that are important to you - starting with the most important and going down to the least important. You might want to add things like: loving, supportive, faithful, sense of humor, joyful personality… etc.

Clearly define the qualities and characteristics you seek in a partner. Be specific about what you want in a loving relationship.

2. Visualize your ideal partnership:  

Imagine yourself in a loving and fulfilling relationship. How does it feel? Imagine you can experience the emotions… How does it feel to be loved and accepted unconditionally? Alos, imagine yourself loving and accepting your partner unconditionally. Love is not about changing yourself for your partner - nor is it about changing your partner. It’s about allowing your partner to be his / her self fully and completely. In that way, you also have the freedom to be yourself completely, and to be accepted and loved unconditionally - exactly the way you are.

A lot of people have high expectations - expecting their partner to be perfect. That’s a lot of pressure to put on anyone. It’s also completely unrealistic, as nothing, not a single thing on this earth, is perfect. Not even you! 🙂

So when you visualize your (almost perfect) relationship, have fun with it. What do you guys talk about? What are his/her interests? What do you guys laugh about? Which special moments are precious to you both? Maybe you both love a glass of wine while you watch the sun setting. 

Be specific about your life when you are in a relationship. 

3. Practice self-love:

I can’t stress this point enough. Before anyone can truly love and accept you - you need to love and accept yourself. One of my favorite sayings is: If you fall in love with life - Life will fall in love with you. The same with Love. You first need to fall in love with you - then you will attract the right kind of love. 

Some of the best ways to practice self-love is being gentle with yourself, supporting yourself when things go wrong (so no self-blame!), giving yourself time-out to relax, buy yourself flowers, or light a scented candle… The things you would love from a partner - do for yourself.

In this way you form a strong sense of self-worth - feeling loved, secure and supported. It also has a beautiful side effect of teaching you how to be a loving and supportive partner, when you are in a relationship. 

If you create and build a strong sense of self-love and self-care, you will naturally attract a healthy and loving relationship...

4. Let go of limiting beliefs:

Letting go of limiting beliefs and fears is also really important… If you have negative or fear-based beliefs, these are definitely going to hinder your chances of attracting real and lasting love. So you need to let go of those limiting beliefs about relationships - and about men/women… 

A good place to start is by reading my blog on Transforming Limiting Beliefs… 

Releasing fears and negative beliefs is the same as preparing the soil for a beautiful garden… first you clear out the weeds, then you loosen the soil and add the fertilizers, and only then do you plant the seeds! And remember to tend to the garden when it starts to grow and flourish under your tender loving care. 

5. Take action: 

While manifesting is a powerful way to initiate the process of attracting a wonderful partner, you need to take action to assist in the process. You aren’t going to attract love sitting alone at home. Get out and about, join a social club, start a new hobby, or go to meetings and talks about your favorite subjects… Learn something new… go on a course for something you’ve always wanted to learn… Open yourself to meeting new people. 

Along the way, you will also make new friends, and that’s always a beautiful thing, which leads to a sense of balance in life. And don’t make the mistake of isolating yourself and your partner when you find love - it’s way too much pressure on one person to fulfill your life completely.

Balance is key to finding and keeping love. 

6. Trust the process: 

Trust that when you are ready, when you have done the work and prepared the garden, that love will come when the time is right. Have patience. Keep working with self-love and self-care, expanding your life, doing new things, meeting new people. In doing this you will automatically find new levels of happiness within yourself.

And don’t be tempted by the first person that shows interest! This is a trap many people fall into when they first start to work with the process. Understand that when you have your new life in pace, you are going to be very attractive to others… - you are going to attract attention. So be prepared. Stick to your list - at least to some degree. Don’t throw away the entire list just because someone is giving you a bit of attention. It’s not worth it and long-term the relationship is unlikely to work.

And while no one is perfect, and you can be open to negotiating some of the less important points on your list - make sure you know which items on your list are important. You can even make a second list of REALLY IMPORTANT NON NEGOTIABLE CHARACTERISTICS. This second list will be much sorter, of course, and that’s great. But it will help you to define what is important to you in a potential partner. And stick to this non-negotiable list! 

Everyone’s journey is different, because manifesting is a personal process. So be kind to yourself, practice self-love, stay positive, expand your life, explore possibilities, and be open and receptive to the opportunities that come your way.